This is a month to really open up your energy to the whole environment and tune in to every single being and creature in it so you can extend your inner care and kindness. This personal benevolence to express and reach out is truly beneficial to you – as it spreads your energy – helping you bring out your inner warmth and outflow your invaluable wisdom. What an opportunity to show how much you have to give and gift the world.
How this energy affects you in your personal life:
Everything you have received from the generous universe we live in is but an intermittent pass-through. It is ultimately meant to continue on as you share it with others enriched with your own inner signature and touch. If you instead want to hold on to it only for yourself, it will not do you any good at all. It is like damming up the river from more of the flow that could come your way. Release and allow it to be free by letting it go so you can move forward. All benevolence, although on the surface it seems to be oriented toward others or done on their account, is doing you more good than to those you open up to. This is because you cannot give to others what you do not have within yourself. Before you can enrich anyone else, you need to be full of all of your accrued inner wealth and wisdom inside. Although you can be helpful or concerned with something outside of yourself, you really need to be responsible and able to rely on your own self first. If you do not know what it means to take care of yourself, how can you truly care for others or be an example of what they can do to be just like you – loyal to yourself first? For this reason, it is even more important than ever this whole month to closely attend to and help yourself. Be practical by making everything work in your favor and self-reliant to see that all things bring you fulfillment and make you be the best you can be. Then and only then, everyone around you can see your self-loyalty in action and working great so they can get inspired and use what you have gathered for yourself through lifetimes as a pattern to follow.
How this energy affects you in your business life:
How much is your business equally good for both you and others? If it is more good for you than your customers, then you may be taking advantage of situations this is creating and it is leaving your clients feeling short of what they were expecting from your service. Although it may seem you are gaining a lot more from this, the truth is that it will not work for you as well as it could because you are really robbing yourself of the invaluable benevolence missing from the equation. In other words, if you are not giving of yourself properly, you may feel lacking inside and are not sharing enough with others. The more greedy you become, the more you are impoverished from the real gifts you could be giving out and are working more from your intellect rather than your true feelings. If, on the other hand, your service is tipped the other way and it is better for your recipients than it is for you, you are leaving yourself behind by being a do-gooder and instead of working from real feelings – you act purely from your emotions (feelings we have been taught to feel). This will create unbalanced anger and resentment and an overly-concerned energy to the point of even blaming your customers – and you may begin to feel overused and tired. Nothing works as well as the balanced 50-50, in other words, 50% good for them and 50% good for you – all at the same time. In order to accomplish this, all you need to do is look for an equal energy exchange in your business which builds solid and ever-lasting relationships and keeps everyone’s inflow and outflow on the straight and narrow all the time.
How this energy affects you in your social life:
You may really love those around you, but this is not enough when you may not know how to support them in what they have come here to do. Your greatest care and concern can be expressed through allowing them to just be themselves while backing them spiritually and physically in whichever way they choose to freely be and what they want to do for themselves. Otherwise, if you come down hard and heavy with stern advice, your motives are off and you want to control them for your own convenience. By requiring them to follow your personal belief system, you are actually building a golden prison for them – thinking this is the best and safest environment for them to live in. But there is no better place to live in than freedom in whatever form it may look like to them. Even if they are in a situation where they are not being provided for at the optimum level, as long as their spirit is allowed to flow unbound and free, they will still have an opportunity to be tuned in and pick up priceless inspiration to get themselves in the right place at the right time. This way, they can use their own sensitivity to do their own thing as they are meant to. Therefore, anyone is usually better off without a golden chain around their neck even though they are being provided for with a lot of abundance. Set them free to find themselves, unless they are truly in danger. Give those around you the benevolence to be as they wish and the real them will appreciate your own free spirit letting theirs soar on their own path to self-fulfillment. Only then will everything truly click into place and the right fit in your relationship will become obvious with time and be given a reasonable chance to work. Remember, there is no such thing as a generation gap – just a communication gap!