Being sincere will allow you to create and enhance the best relationships this month, no matter what.
How October’s energy affects you in your personal life: If you are not sincere with yourself, you are not listening to your true feelings. You may be listening to your emotional side, which is filled with concepts you learned in your first seven years of life, when you are like a sponge and pick up anger, guilt or frustration from your parents or whomever raised you. As a result of listening to your emotional side, you will not be listening to yourself (you will actually be listening to your mother or father, and if they know more about how to help you than you do, then go for it). But in reality, it is usually you and only you who knows what is right and best for you —as long as you follow it.
How this energy affects you in your business life: People use their sensitivity to pick up on whether you are being sincere with them or not. By following what works the best for you—it will probably work best for them as well. In other words, just follow what you believe can help people the most, and if you are right, they will thank you. Listen to what others are saying because this gives you the greatest clues on how to be of service to them. In Howard Wimer’s book Inner Guidance and the Four Spiritual Gifts, he outlines how everyone communicates with themselves and others. If you understand what the needs are, you can fill them very easily. Don’t try, just do!
How this energy affects you in your social life: Everyone knows how important it is to be sincere with family members and loved ones. If you say something they know not to be true or does not match what you really feel, family and loved one will discern this very easily. By showing that you care by allowing yourself to be sincere with yourself before you communicate, you are being sincere with others as well. Just enjoy what you have—and do not discount anything or anyone around you.