In order to rise up above old habits and concepts that keep you from becoming who you really are, you need to see beyond where you are now. This is the key to creating the lifestyle you want for yourself.
Pitfalls:
Take a look at what you have been doing in the past and decide specifically what it is you want to change. You have a choice. You can either stay with what is not working for you or you can continue on with what does. It is really up to you.
Solutions:
The key to changing old habits is to take a look at your parents and see which one of them may have passed on to you the patterns you are indulging in today. If they had a tendency to feel rejected or judged, you may have picked up the same concept! Realize that you do not own this. You simply picked it up during your first seven years of life and you’re imitating what they did. Inner Expansion has advanced charts and consultations that can help you release these old concepts and go beyond your present state-of-consciousness (see: http://www.innerexpansion.com).